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TYPES OF SEX ADDICTION..... MUST READ FOR EVERY MEMBERS!!!!
Voyeurism - Usually means objectifying the other person, so it is not a personal relationship.
Exhibitionism – From a relationship perspective, it is introducing
oneself in an inappropriate way or seeking attention from others with no
intent of going further, which is to tease.
Seductive Role Sex –
Often there is a fear of abandonment so having more than one
relationship is away to prevent the hurt they are sure they will
receive. They are crippled in their ability to form lasting bonds and
enduring relationships.
Trading
Sex – If a prostitute is a sex addict, meaning that they found sex more
pleasurable with clients than in personal relationships and are “hooked
on the life”, it represents a significant distortion of normal
courtship. The goal is to simulate flirtation, demonstration, and
romance. What actually happens in most cases is about replication of
childhood sexual abuse in which the child gained power in a risky game
of being sexual with the caregiver.
Intrusive Sex – People who
engage in intrusive sex, such as touching people in crowds or making
obscene phone calls, are really perverting the touching and foreplay
dimensions of courtship. Their behaviours represent both intimacy
failure and individuation difficulties.
Fantasy Sex – Many sex
addicts find refuge in fantasy sex because other forms of acting out are
simply too complicated, too risky, or too much effort. It is about fear
of rejection, fear of reality, and reduction of anxiety.
Paying
for Sex - Here, sex addicts are willing participants in simulated
intimacy. They are focused, however, on the touching, foreplay, and
intercourse without the hassle of a relationship. Often, the failure is
about the sex addict’s inability to communicate feelings to his/her
partner or to be willing to work on his/her own attractiveness
behaviours.
Anonymous Sex – Having to experience fear in order
for arousal or sexual initiation. You do not have to attract, seduce,
trick, or even pay for sex. It is just sex. Frequently for sex addicts,
part of the high is the risk of unknown persons and situations.
Pain Exchange Sex – For a sex addict to only be aroused if someone is
hurting them is a distortion of what goes into sexual and relationship
health. Specifically, touching, foreplay, and intercourse become
subordinated to some dramatic story line that is usually a re-enactment
of a childhood abuse experience.
Exploitive Sex – Addicts in
this category will use “grooming” behaviour, which is to carefully build
the trust of the unsuspecting victim. Attraction, flirtation,
demonstration, romance, and intimacy are all used. Arousal is dependent
on the vulnerability of another.
